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♥ Happy Valentines Day ♥

Valentines day is one of those days where I get mixed feelings about. I guess it’s one of those days where you have the lovers and the haters, pretty much literally.

The lovers spend the day wondering what they will get for Valentines day, and I guess in Australia us girls are quite lucky, because the day is pretty much about us being sent flowers and candy.
Side note…
In Japan, the girls are actually the ones to give the guys presents, usually they home make chocolate into cute mold shapes and wrap it. I actually saw some damn cool chocolate molds in japan like Darth Vader and one piece haha. 
The guy’s spoil the girls on their special day called “white day”.

ok end side note….
The haters post pictures on the internet about how stupid this holiday is and such.
…And then you have the people that post pictures of heart shaped desserts all day that make you so hungry!
I guess at the end of the day, it’s just an excuse to spoil someone that you love, be it a boyfriend, husband or friend. Much like Christmas and Birthdays really 🙂
One thing though that I know all girls hate and me myself included is the peer pressure of comparing yourself to what other girls are getting. Especially when you see designer handbags and diamond rings being given, suddenly you measely flowers don’t seem so special anymore.

But I think that’s pretty stupid.

That being said…I’m pretty guilty of contributing to this peer pressure (yes I posted my flowers on facebook). Also a prewarning –  if you can’t take soppy photos and words I suggest you stop reading here… or maybe skip to the end 😉


I just want to dedicate this post to the man in my life Mr AshyyMcflashy! (well his real name is Ashley so technically I can pretend to be him on the phone cause Ashley’s a girls name too ;))

He has been a huge part of my life, from being a friend at first then into a boyfriend. What I love about him is he is always helping supporting and loving me no matter what happens and laughing through my weird tantrums I throw when I’m mad and moody (sorry for being a bitch sometimes).

Also he has helped me so much with building this blog, taking my photos, editing my videos, being patient with me while I get all picky and being a total diva during my shoots.

Despite all that the best thing is that, his my best friend, not just my boyfriend. I can pretty say anything on my mind to him and we are 100% comfortable with each other. Even so much as to do the craziest grossest things, I don’t even want to let you know in case you know you look at me differently ;).

So Ashyy, I just want to say a huge thank you to you hunni for being so awesome, so supportive, always eat my food and finish with a smile, always calling me beautiful, always help me move heavy things, always trying to cheer me up and surprising me with ViVi magazine whenever it comes out

But most importantly, thank you for always accepting me for all that I am, no matter how weird…like seriouslly….weird… and no matter how insecure, putting up with me calling myself fat all the time while pointing at the smallest bits of fat, and refusing to eat carbs, and eating my carbs when I’m at your parents place so I can pretend I’m still eating like a normal person..and man so many things!!

Thank you so much for surprising me with flowers today on my dressing table…

And coming home and helping me work the camera to take this photo since I was getting frustrated at not knowing how to use the settings..
For putting up with me forcing you to do a photoshoot and do you hair after going to the gym with your other boyfriend >:(
For showing me that there are always flowers to smell no matter how grumpy I get
For being a total hottie 😉 yea boy band!!
And for loving mikki as much as I do 🙂 But you gotta stop bullying him…..
And last of all…
Behind all this perfectness, it’s not actually perfect. In fact ladies… you may see all these pretty images on facebook and twitter of all these girls getting roses and flowers and candy…and I’m not really helping…
But trust me, behind every relationships there are fights, disagreements and times when you just find them damn annoying. Nothing is perfect…and everyone is strange in their little way.
And since I just showed you all the “posed” and perfect pictures of us which everyone wants to show the world…

…this is kinda what REALLY happens in our relationship…


Plus that’s just tame ;)) I’m doing you a favour by censoring it 😉

And this is how I truly feel about relationships:

Hahaha I’m sucha softie…
Ok before I get all squishy and teary…I want to wish you guys all a….


I would love to hear how you guys spent valentines day 😉 Please let me know in the comments section :D! 

(If you can use Facebook comment so it doesn’t feel so lonely 🙁 It took ages to install sorry *offtopic*)

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  • Reply
    Hannah T.
    February 14, 2013 at 3:16 pm

    Lovely pictures!
    Me and my boyfriend don't celebrate Valentine's day, but I love to read everyone's posts.
    x Hannah

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    Vivian Yuen
    February 14, 2013 at 3:16 pm

    Even with the strange-ness, you guys are adorable! Happy Valentine's lovely~


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    February 14, 2013 at 5:57 pm

    Awwww you guys are so cute! Happy hearts day to you guys! I used to hate valentine's day! I was the one who gave gifts to my ex back then. Since he didn't get me anything, i felt that i needed to give him some. I know, how pathetic huh? Hahaha. Good thing my husband is the best, he's so thoughtful. Woke up early to surprise me 🙂

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    Rin ❤
    February 14, 2013 at 6:01 pm

    You guys are adorable together! Haha I think it's a silly love-hate day.. mainly cuz the suspense/expectations/disappointment KILLS it. Happy Valentines day nonetheless <3

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    February 14, 2013 at 9:29 pm

    Totally adorable, have a great day.


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    Laila R.
    February 14, 2013 at 9:49 pm

    You are a great blogging inspiration Wengie:) Keep up
    the great work!


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    February 14, 2013 at 10:30 pm

    So Sweet 🙂 <333
    You have great Ideas and a interesting blog, i really like it!
    what you think, wanna follow each other?
    I would be happy 🙂

    Kisses, Kira from Switzerland

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    February 14, 2013 at 11:29 pm

    Looks like you had a lovely day Wengie, the flowers look so nice 🙂

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    February 15, 2013 at 4:14 am

    Soo sweet!!! Happy Valentine's day!!
    *new follower*


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    Dipika Syngai
    February 15, 2013 at 12:13 pm

    Love the pictures!!! You guys look so cute together ^_^

    And thanks for following…I followed you back 😀

    Keep in touch!

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    February 15, 2013 at 12:21 pm

    Śliczne zdjęcia. Bardzo słodkie 🙂

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    Andrejka B.
    February 15, 2013 at 12:32 pm

    moc krásné fotky:))

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    Barbara Materi
    February 15, 2013 at 1:36 pm

    Love this post! Your cat is so cute!!

    You have really a nice blog! I follow you now with Google friend connect, Facebook and Bloglovin! Hope you'll follow me back!



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    Frederika K
    February 15, 2013 at 5:04 pm

    OMG!you´re such a cute girl <3
    awwww lovely:)

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    February 15, 2013 at 5:18 pm

    sweet couple :3 you're very cute!

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    February 15, 2013 at 6:06 pm

    Hola guapa!
    Te he encontrado por casualidad y resulta que menudo blog me estaba perdiendo! jaja
    me encanta el blog y me uno a tus followers desde ya!
    Pasate por el mio si quieres, es de moda, también saco mi lado rokero, dame tu opinión y si te gusta, te animo a seguirme también!
    Un besazo!

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    My Blueberry Nights
    February 15, 2013 at 6:31 pm

    you're so lovely! ^^

    kisses babe!

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    February 15, 2013 at 7:20 pm

    How sweet!:) You both look adorable together!:) Following you back on GFC dear! Kisses! xo

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    February 15, 2013 at 7:31 pm

    aww you guys are just too cute! you got some beautiful flowers <33

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    February 15, 2013 at 8:40 pm

    cool! like it!
    love your blog dear! could you please check out mine?
    it would be an honour!
    It's fashion damnit
    thank you so much!
    Lottie xxxx

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    February 15, 2013 at 9:00 pm

    Lovely flowers!

    x Denbelle

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    February 15, 2013 at 10:17 pm

    Great Blog, very beautiful photos. Congratulations and greetings from:

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    Cindy S. - FashionsBeauty
    February 15, 2013 at 11:01 pm

    That's so sweet, always nice to receive flowers on Valentine's! Thanks for visiting, now following back xoxo

    Fashions Beauty

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    Irene Lily.k
    February 16, 2013 at 4:28 am

    omG , so sweet ! <3 <3 <3

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    February 16, 2013 at 5:11 am

    You are beautiful and what a sweet Valentine's Day you had! Thank you so much for stopping by my blog, yours is lovely! 🙂

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    Mindy Fan
    February 16, 2013 at 5:39 am

    That is so sweet of him! You guys are so lucky!
    I love your new blog layout by the way!

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    Louise Lam
    February 16, 2013 at 6:11 am

    Oh my god, can't stop laughing at the pictures of Ashley… I went to school with him! Such a small world. But that is so sweet, the flowers look beautiful! And you two look great together 😀


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    February 16, 2013 at 7:05 am

    You guys are adorable! I agree; even when other girls are getting designer this and that, I think it's the thought that counts! Haha, love your photoshoot together! >w< You guys are a super cute couple! ^w^
    Happy Valentines Day!

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    obat maag kronis
    February 16, 2013 at 7:58 am

    i didnt celebrate valentine day because i break up my bf at the day before, lol.. but nice to read stories for other who celebrate it.

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    fashion muffins
    February 16, 2013 at 9:09 am

    Great post! Lovely pictures 🙂 Love your blog 🙂

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    February 17, 2013 at 8:47 am

    Sah cute <3 hehe and that grandma/grandpa picture made my heart melt.

    Could you do a blog post about boys? like how to approach them if you like them???? There's this guy at work… but he keeps sending me mixed signals…. sigh

    How did you and your boy meet?

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    February 17, 2013 at 3:54 pm

    how you've done your blog design for blogger?? It looks really good! 🙂
    it would be really helpful ♥

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    mish berries
    February 18, 2013 at 2:10 am

    No relationship is perfect but there's no harm trying! Ashley is nice lol, being in the picture with you and also playing around and oh, the flowers!! Call me old school but I really appreciate a bouquet of flowers because it simply melts ones heart <3

    Such a sweet Valentine's you had! Mine was a forever alone Valentine's hahahaha! Well cross fingers for a better Valentine's next year (for me) and an even sweeter one for you! <3


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    February 20, 2013 at 1:09 am

    Love this post! And you look soo happy and cute together!:) Wish you all the best! I couldn't agree with you more about the fights and everything going on behind every relationship.. But isn't that the magic thing about them? That you still need and love the other person no matter what!:)

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    Signe Savant
    February 21, 2013 at 3:48 am

    These photos are adorable!

    : signe (your newest follower)

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